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2023
03/31

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Kabir
Philosophy

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Is desire preventing us from achieving life’s goals?

"To be content with what we possess is the greatest and most secure of riches." 
- Marcus Tullius Cicero
 
Kabir - The couplet
चाह मिटी, चिंता मिटी मनवा बेपरवाह ।
जिसको कुछ नहीं चाहिए वह शहनशाह॥
 
Transliterated:
Chaah miti, chinta miti, manwa beparwaah |
Jisko kuch nahi chahiye, wah Shahenshah ||
 
Translation:
Says Kabir – when desire vanishes, so does worry |
He who desires nothing, is the true lord of all ||
 
My understanding:
It is easy to say – and so many say it – conquer desire, and you will find true satisfaction. But how does one go about it?
Conquering desire is not an easy task, as it involves a fundamental shift in how we think and approach life. However, there are several steps one must take to conquer desire:
•	Recognize the root of desire: Understand that desire is often driven by a sense of lack or dissatisfaction and recognize that this sense of lack is often rooted in our thoughts and beliefs.
•	Practice mindfulness: Develop a regular mindfulness practice, such as meditation or yoga, to help you become more aware of your thoughts and emotions.
•	Cultivate contentment: Learn to appreciate what you already have, and find contentment in simple pleasures.
•	Focus on gratitude: Focus on the good things in your life, and practice gratitude regularly.
•	Set realistic goals: Instead of focusing on material possessions or achievements, set realistic goals that align with your values and contribute to your personal growth.
•	Limit exposure to media: Limit your exposure to media that promotes materialism and consumerism, as this can fuel desire and create a sense of lack.
•	Practice self-control: Develop self-control by learning to delay gratification and resisting impulsive urges.
•	Seek support: Seek support from friends, family, or a therapist to help you stay on track and navigate any challenges that arise.
•	Engage in meaningful activities: Engage in activities that bring you fulfillment and meaning, such as volunteering or pursuing a passion.
•	Embrace impermanence: Recognize that everything is impermanent and focus on living in the present moment, rather than clinging to desires or attachments.